I met a 53 year old skater on the R train today coming back from skating and eating tacos in Brooklyn. We spoke for a while. Somehow I ended up telling how I turned 30 recently and have been feeling a lot of pressure about growing up and dressing like a 30 year old man should dress. His advice was " Do what ever the fuck you want " Thats been my mentality my whole life, but it was still good to hear it from an older skater who shares a similar lifestyle as me. Thanks Scooby